Ready to explore your desires with confidence and care? In a confidential, one-on-one coaching session, you'll learn the tools to communicate your needs, understand your desires, and create the relationships you truly want.
Book Your Coaching Session"Having a consultation with Aoife was wonderful! She makes you feel so safe … she offered wonderful, practical suggestions while keeping my wellbeing a priority. I would 100% recommend her sessions."
In a culture where sex and intimacy are often hidden in shadows, many of us are left without the language or confidence to express what we really want. This silence can leave us feeling disconnected, ashamed, or unfulfilled.
That's why I created The Kink Mother – a safe, judgment-free space where you can explore your desires openly and honestly. Together, we'll untangle the fears and myths around intimacy, so you can approach your relationships with confidence, compassion, and self-acceptance.
My coaching isn't about telling you who to be – it's about helping you discover your authentic self and giving you the tools to communicate it clearly.
Book a private online session to receive personalised guidance in a secure, confidential environment, helping you navigate your relationships and desires with clarity and confidence.
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Recognised as a leading expert on intimacy, Aoife's work has been featured across prominent media outlets, including Ireland AM, The Irish Independent, Glamour, Mashable, and podcast appearances.
"As a newbie to the kink scene, I felt this was a really welcoming and safe space to ask questions and engage openly. I learned so much and got to meet some really cool people!"
Aoife is a Relationship & Sex Educator driven by a passion for creating safe, inclusive spaces for conversations often left in the dark. Her work focuses on taboo areas like kink, BDSM, and intimacy for people with disabilities, leading her to develop the ORGASM consent framework, which is rooted in principles of risk-informed education.
Having facilitated workshops for Student Unions and LGBT+ societies across Ireland, Aoife's mission is to provide you with the tools and environment to prioritise your pleasure and well-being. She specialises in helping clients navigate intimacy on their own terms, ensuring they feel secure, seen, and supported.
"The environment was so relaxed and Aoife did a great job of looking after everyone. I didn't feel at all embarrassed like I thought I would. It felt like a conversation with friends!"
Whether you're exploring kink for the first time, rebuilding intimacy in a relationship, or simply learning to trust your own body again, you don't have to navigate it alone.
Your one-on-one coaching session is a confidential space to be heard, supported, and empowered. Let's take the first step together.
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